As a reporter, you write
stories everyday and have covered all sorts of topics over the past
two decades. What was your inspiration for writing Life's A Journey
- Not A Sprint?
If I had to use one word to sum up my source
of inspiration for writing Life's A Journey - Not A Sprint it
would simply be "people." I'm talking about the people that I come in
contact with everyday, and there are many. Many are friends and
neighbors. Others are women and men or students I've met on stories or
while doing speeches. And, as different as all of us can be, many of
us share one thing in common. We are in a constant tug of war between
struggling to achieve our professional goals while not putting
personal fulfillment or essential time for our loved ones on the
backburner. So many of us are torn between living-to-work and
working-to-live, making time for themselves and finding ways to make
our work experiences more rewarding on a personal level. People are my
passion. I love to listen to what they have to say and use those
thoughts to tell a compelling story. My book allows me to share the
ways in which I've become successful in an extremely competitive
career, energized myself and improved upon my life while finding an
important and precious balance between home work and family.
My goal is to help others find that harmony in
their lives while living out their dreams at the same time.
What impact are you hoping
this book will have on your readers?
Life's A Journey - Not A Sprint is
designed to help you navigate your way to the successes you're seeking
whether its a promotion, becoming a better listener or partner or
transitioning from college to career. I want my readers to know that
they're not alone by feeling that life is stressful or even
overwhelming at times when you're combining a very busy work life with
a hectic home life. But, the key is that there are ways to cope and
move beyond the stresses that become a drag on your mental, physical
and emotional well being.
For those in life's fast lane, my book is a
guide to help you smooth out the rough spots and keep your eye on the
"prize" -- or the goals you've set out to achieve. It's a journey to
living a richer and fuller life.
What types of challenges
have you faced in your life and how has it helped you to write
Life's A Journey - Not a Sprint?
We have all faced challenges in our lives that
have shaped the way we deal with adversity. But, after about two
decades in the television business along with having children, I felt
compelled to share my experiences with others. And, there have been
many challenges in this extremely competitive career. While I have
been blessed with mentors, role models and family that would love you
without big titles or masters degrees. There have been many naysayers.
But, I never gave up. Instead, I've looked for detours around the
roadblocks that have existed every step of the way. It's very
gratifying to know that I can share my experiences - hoping it will
inspire others. Being focused, more organized and having a deep sense
of faith can move you where you want to go or sometimes just need to
be.
I want readers to be empowered with
information, move beyond barriers and be uplifted and feel compelled
to change their lives for the better. I'm a true believer in the
saying that "when one door closes another one opens."
You talked to other experts
and conducted an informal survey from people around the country for
this book. What insights can you share?
Certainly being able to talk with and
interview a number of experts at the top of their fields from
prestigious recruiting firms to renown experts in the area of food and
nutrition has enhanced my journey as my book has unfolded. Information
is power and allows us to therefore empower ourselves. Among them,
internationally lauded poet, writer and educator Maya Angelou shared
words of wisdom. Dr. Alvin Poussaint, a consultant to the award
winning Cosby Show is a widely followed and highly regarded speaker
and author. Dr. Poussaint gave me his expert advice on marriage and
family -- keeping the bonds between couples strong when relationships
are pulled in a dozen different directions. Barbara Rolls, Ph.D, the
author of three professional books on food and nutrition and has
served on the advisory council of the National Institutes of Health's
Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases. Rolls and I
shared a candid conversation as I interviewed her about the importance
of weight control in conjunction with healthy eating and the
importance of maintaining a healthy mind and attitude. And, there are
poignant thoughts from the dozens of people I surveyed across the
country who shared their amazing stories of triumph and advice on how
to succeed when the road takes you down the path you least expected.
You've had a very
successful career, who most inspired you when you were growing up and
will you tell that story in Life's A Journey - Not A Sprint?
Yes. I don't think I could have written this
book if I wasn't inspired by those around me, women and men doing
phenomenal things in their careers or with their children and living
positive and prosperous lives with their partners - despite incredible
challenges. We realize that life is not easy. But, it's hard to
imagine a world without inspiration. I write about my mother and
grandmother who since a very young age have been a continuous source
of my inspiration, going back to school and earnings degrees and
coming to the United States from a small Island in the early 1900's.
Life's A Journey - Not A Sprint has a collection of stories that
will move you to make changes in your life.
You come in contact with so
many different types of people from working moms and dads to CEO's to
Dignitaries. With that in mind do you think there is a need for this
type of book?
I truly believe in my heart of hearts there
really is a need for this book. That's because so many people talk
about being "stressed out" these days and trying to "do it all."
In Life's A Journey - Not A Sprint I
wanted to go beyond talking solely about the difficulties involved in
the challenges we face and focus as well on offering solutions to
dealing with work and raising children and finding time for yourself.
I spend a lot of my time talking to professional organizations,
college students and business groups. When people come up to me they
want to talk business "and" more and more about real life issues. They
want to know how I've been able to be a mother, wife, active in my
community, get to the school plays and the pediatrician when duty
calls. Oh, and be on the set early in the morning - sometimes at 4
a.m. As I tell so many others, it's not necessarily "doing it all"
rather, "doing what what you love" -- and doing it well!
